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"How did you start to become an AF artist?" Answering follower questions


Hi Loves,

it's Lovely,

herself,

and right now I am chilling and relaxing from a very stressful week. It was one of the hardest and difficult weeks I had to go through for the past weeks. So today I just want to take some time to answer one of the most frequent questions I got in the past couple of months and this question is

"How did you start to become an AF artist?"

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I want to share this story because I know that my most recent Instagram photo




is one of the most recognized photos I have ever posted, and you really love me doing the ass photos and post, and I am really happy to see your reactions about it. It makes me more than happy to read your comments and questions and I love to answer them. So let's get right into the answer to this question.

As you may know, my roots are in Spain and I moved to the Philippines a couple of years ago. So it is absolutely not that usual that people who are from countries and living in those will do AF because it is super warm here and AF especially in the Philippines is totally underrated.

But I knew for a long time already that I am a fan of AF, so there was this one day I think in 2015 when my best friend and closest love and I went to H&M., Yes I know some of you will say now omg how could you do that Love, but I wanted to get this vinyl legging they had in store during that time. This is the one we used for our Azure shooting.





We bought two of these leggings, one for me, and one for her. As I have mentioned I am an AF fashion victim for a very long time already. On our way back home I told her my story about how it all started, and I also shared that I had a huge collection of AF pants at home before I came to the Philippines. She was saying why don't you start a new collection here? That woke something inside me and I said yeah why not. So I started to look for shops online that will be delivering packages to the Philippines because as you know that is not so easy to have them delivered here. There was this one that I had to wait for more than 6 months for one single package. Our delivery services are not the best, and I am always willing to pay extra to make sure that the package will arrive. 

I got some items from ASOS, Fashion Nova, The Parisian, Spanx, Commando,  the rubber fashion, girls only, wear it girly, and a store that is focusing on PVC and vinyl only in Australia, but I do not remember the name, unfortunately. So I have a wide range of AF fashion items.












So this little day trip to Megamall in Manila and our visit to H&M made me decide to actually pursue my dream of having another collection of AF items. 
If you want to know how my collection looks like and what I have else in my clothed let me know via DM, Twitter, and in the comments below. I'd be more than glad to answer your questions in the future.

So this little day trip to Megamall in Manila and our visit to H&M made me decide to actually pursue my dream of having another collection of AF items. 
If you want to know how my collection looks like and what I have else in my clothed let me know via DM, Twitter, and in the comments below. I'd be more than glad to answer your questions in the future (links see above).










I hope you liked this little small talk post and I will see you soon again, xoxo Lovely.

Hi Loves,

this is Lovely,

herself,

and whenever I am doing these hazard posts I want you to remember that all that I want to express with these is to protect my Filipino people.

FEB 22 2021 11am

Dujuan has dissipated.
This is the last update, but the rainfall threat continues.
Information as of 0300 UTC:
Position: No discernible surface circulation
Movement: WNW at 10 knots (20 km/h)
Intensity: 25 knots (45 km/h)
Central pressure: N/A
PAGASA local name: Auring (#AuringPH)

Hazards affecting land:
TCWS #1 remains active for a large area, but these signals are likely to be dropped soon.

Although Dujuan has dissipated, the heavy rainfall threat over portions of the Central Visayas and the Bicol Region continues. Additional rainfall of 100-200mm is possible in some areas.
Discussion:

JMA and JTWC have both issued their final advisories on Dujuan. PAGASA is likely to discontinue warnings soon as well, so this is a special update to end updates on Dujuan. The system no longer has a discernible surface circulation, and most of the shower activity has moved off to the northwest along with a rapidly decaying mid-level circulation. The wind data from earlier suggests Dujuan has decayed into a trough, and so this is the last update.
Although Dujuan has dissipated, the heavy rainfall threat will continue through Tuesday, although most of the rain has shifted northwest toward portions of Luzon.










The primary reason for writing anything is to communicate with others, to stimulate interest or action from the reader. You may also use writing to help you reflect on your experiences and learn from them.


The reason I am writing is not to make myself happy. Happiness is the end of the path.

The reason I am writing is to reflect on myself in certain situations.

I have been through many challenges in my life: a brutal childhood, a life-threatening sickness, a suicide try, and many relationships that just broke me and my heart.

The reason for me to write is that I am trying to bring these moments to my back, that I am trying to move on from them.

The reason for me to write is to study myself and to reflect on myself in certain situations of what I have done good and wrong. I want to learn from these experiences; I am putting them on my wall (website) to leave them behind, move on, to find a new path for the future without denying what I had to go through. I do these things because they belong to me; they are indicators of my character, of who I am, and writing about this helps me, it supports me to become better and to be better and happy, but I am still far away from this.

I am writing to close old chapters of moments of Kam and to open new ones.

There have been so many good moments I experienced because of that and the best was truly to find love again, these things that will just cheer you up, and with that, you learn how to appreciate what you have in life. All the things mentioned above made me forget about what I appreciate, what is important to me, and to live a better life.

I am writing to continue my path in life and writing supports me in doing so.

Thanks for listening and reading, and thanks for more than 80k followers on this website. It really means a lot to me. Thank you!
Hello Loves,

It is Lovely,

herself,

and today I was in the mood to cook again.

Ají de gallina is one of these traditional dishes: Poached chicken slathered in a spicy and creamy nut-based sauce is served over white rice and boiled potatoes. Bright yellow—Amarillo—in color thanks to the famous ají Amarillo, and rich from the unusual sauce of ground walnuts, this dish is hearty, filling, and also really easy to make. Don't be intimidated by how complex it sounds, the recipe is fairly simple and just requires a little attention.

Heavily influenced by Asian immigration into the country, Peruvian cuisine nowadays is a melting pot of Chinese, Japanese, Indonesian, African, Andean, and local techniques, flavors, and ingredients. Ají de gallina is no exception as it may find its origin in a sweeter Catalonian dish that later evolved into what we know now as a savory dish combining European, South American, and Asian ingredients.

Since finding ají Amarillo at your local supermarket might be hard, go straight to any Latin markets or Hispanic bodegas in your area: If they don't carry fresh ají, buy frozen or jarred paste. They both will yield a flavorful dish. If you can't find ají Amarillo in any form, replace it with Scotch bonnet or habanero; their fruity and spicy flavors will make fantastic substitutions.

Spicy chicken based on a recipe from the Peruvian restaurant


Version 1








PREPARATION

Cut out the chicken breasts and bring the rest to the boil in salted water with a little soup green and cook slowly. Then let it cool down and then pluck it into small strips. Save the broth.

Chop up the crackers and soak them in the milk, then stir until a paste is formed.

Fry the onions in oil until translucent. Add the garlic and the Pasta de Aji Amarillo or cut the yellow bell pepper into cubes and fry with a little chili. Then deglaze with a little chicken stock.

Add the oatmeal, the chicken, the grated Parmesan, and the chopped pecan nuts one after the other, adding a little chicken broth or milk now and then so that the consistency doesn't get too thick.

Yellow potatoes and rice are served with it. The dish is garnished with black olives and halved hard-boiled eggs.


Good Appetite!


Version 2





Gather the ingredients.




Cook the yellow potatoes in salted water until tender when pierced with a fork.




Let cool, peel, cut into quarters, and set aside.




Place the bread in a small bowl and pour the evaporated milk over it to soak. Set aside.




Place the chicken breasts in a pot with the chicken stock and bring to a simmer.




Cook for 10 to 15 minutes until chicken is just barely cooked through.




Set chicken aside to cool, reserving the stock.




Strain the stock and reserve 2 cups.




Shred the cooled chicken into bite-sized pieces.




Remove stems and seeds from the peppers.




In a blender, process the peppers with the vegetable oil. Blend until smooth.




Add to a medium saucepan the vegetable oil and ají mixture. Add the garlic and onion to the pan and then cook until the onion is soft.




Remove the mixture from the heat and let it cool.




Add the soaked bread, walnuts, and Parmesan cheese to the blender and process until smooth.




Add the cooked onion mixture into the blender and process briefly until well combined.




Place the yellow mixture into a pan and add 1 1/2 cups of the reserved chicken stock.




Bring the sauce to a low simmer. Add in the chicken and heat until warmed through, adding more chicken stock if the sauce is too thick.




One portion of chicken goes over 1/2 cup of cooked white rice, garnished with a few quarters of yellow potatoes, a couple of quartered hard-boiled eggs, and black olives.



Enjoy the food, Lovely <3


Hello Loves,

It is Lovely, herself,

and today I would like to talk about a very sincere topic. 

Make yourself happy and do it with no regrets. Happiness is a gift from life that you should protect daily. Doing this will help you see more of the pleasant things in life even in the face of the toughest of challenges.

Life is a journey full of ups and downs, and everyone will have a share of joys, sadness, disappointment, and other kinds of feelings associated with living. Moreover, each encounter can help you discover how to make yourself happy.

The secret to navigating through life’s challenges is by remaining happy intentionally and always wearing a smile because sadness does not help solve any problems. It only makes a person so miserable that they won’t be able to think up solutions to the issues being faced.

It is important to know ways to make yourself happy irrespective of the situation you are currently facing. James Oppenheim once wrote, “The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance. The wise grows it under his feet.”

That said, it is no surprise that most of the things you can do to make yourself happy revolve around finding happiness in yourself and not from other people.

When you make your happiness dependent on someone else, you are very likely to get disappointed a lot. Likewise, when you attach your happiness to material things, you will never find happiness until you get that particular material thing you seek.



Here are 11 things you can do to make yourself happy.

1. Only Say Nice Things to Yourself
Do you know that little voice in your head you have conversations with? You control it even though it feels like a different entity sometimes. You are happy when people say nice things, and it’s the same when you say nice things to yourself.

If you tell yourself that you are miserable, your brain will believe that and that will make you sad. In contrast, when you say nice things to yourself, your mind reads that as a compliment and that will raise your mood and make you happy.

So, to make yourself happy, it is very important to always say nice things to yourself even when you do something silly.

2. Understand That Life Is a Process
People sometimes put a lot of pressure on themselves by setting their goals alongside a certain age. You hear people say things like, “I should be earning six figures at the age of 27,” or “I should be married at 25” and similar things. If these things fail, they begin to hate themselves or feel ashamed of themselves.

This feeling is one of the significant causes of depression. People get depressed because they are unable to achieve unrealistic goals.

It is essential to accept the way you are at every point and keep working towards your goals. No time is too late to achieve anything you want to make yourself happy.

3. Do Not Compare Yourself to Others
This is a very vital tip on how to make yourself happy. Most people make the mistake of comparing where they are at a particular time with their schoolmates. And when they see them live what they perceive as a better life than them, they begin to hate themselves for that single reason.

It is vital for people to always remember that every person runs a different race, and one person’s life shouldn’t be used as a yardstick to judge your progress in life.

Social Media, on its own, has increased the pressure people feel when they see their mates posting their success. You should learn to find happiness in the little things life has offered you, yourself, your family, and many other simple things.

4. Always Forgive Yourself
Some people beat themselves up for so long when they make a mistake or do something wrong. When you beat yourself up for too long for a mistake, you begin to hate yourself for the mistake you made, and you can never make yourself happy when you hate yourself.

The right thing to do when you make a mistake is to sit down and have a complete analysis of the whole issue. If you are wrong, admit your fault and ask yourself questions like, “how can I be better next time?” Then, forgive yourself with a promise that when faced with a similar situation, you will make the right choice. This is important to know if you are determined to know how to make yourself happy.

5. Avoid People Who Make You Feel Bad About Yourself
In life, certain people want to make you feel bad about yourself every single time. Sometimes, these are people we hold in high regard and have a lot of respect for. They can be family members, partners, friends, colleagues at the workplace, etc. These people see no good in people and are toxic to people around them.

Such people will only make you unhappy whenever you have close contact with them. Therefore, it is important to stay away from them if you want to be happy. If a person does not make you happy, then it will do you a lot of good if you stay away from them and find more positive people.

6. Prioritize Your Health
The numerous benefits of eating healthy by consuming less sugar and junk, eating more vegetables, exercising regularly, and taking supplements cannot be overemphasized. Apart from making you healthy, they make you look better, and looking better translates to you loving yourself more.

Working on maintaining overall health is a form of self-love as that is going to benefit you both physically and mentally. However, when you slip up, you shouldn’t go hard on yourself. A good number of people get very angry at themselves when they eat what they are not supposed to eat or drink what they are not supposed to. It is okay to have that less healthy food your body craves as long as you don’t make it a habit.

7. Spend Money on Yourself
This is one very important part of how to make yourself happy that a lot of people skip. Some people don’t believe that there is a need to spoil themselves sometimes. They would instead get the best stuff for their partners, family members, and even friends, but when it comes to spending on themselves, it becomes a very difficult thing to do.

They would buy the cheapest clothes, shoes, and accessories for themselves even though they would instead want a much more expensive one.

If you can afford the best clothing, then buy them for yourself and make yourself happy. You should make it a part of you to always put yourself first. Try to spend money to get what you want regardless of the price today and see how happy it makes you feel.

8. Make the Places You Spend Most of Your Time in as Comfortable as Possible
As a human being, where you spend most of your time should be made to be very neat and furnished to your taste. This may sound unnecessary, but studies have shown that you sleep better in an elegant, beautiful room and comfortable bed than you will in an untidy room. Likewise, people tend to be more productive working in an orderly and neat office.

Aside from these benefits, being in a place that is as comfortable as you want it to be will give you happiness that will affect your total well-being. So, buy that comfortable bed that has been on your mind or that furniture or appliance you have always wanted to buy if want to be happy every day.

9. Take Out Time to Have Fun
In an ever-busy world, it is very possible to forget about fun and just be all about work. Irrespective of how much you earn from your work or how much you enjoy your job, the human brain is programmed to get weary when the same activity is performed day after day without taking time to wind off and breathe.

Having fun now and then is very beneficial as it gives the brain the much-needed rest it deserves after a while of working, and it also improves your mood and makes you happier. So, take time away from work and go for vacations, the beach, or any other place of interest that will keep your mind away from work for the time being.

10. Always Have Three Square Meals Daily
Some people get so occupied with their work that they forget to eat sometimes, thereby making them skip a meal or, in the worst-case scenario, two meals. This is a habit numerous people are guilty of today. This is a very unloving habit to do to yourself.

Don’t ever be so busy that you won’t have time to eat. However, the possibility of actually being so busy cannot be ignored, but a meal should not be skipped even if you end up eating something very light. It is better than nothing.

When you stop skipping meals, you will be surprised to see the effect that can have on your overall mood. That said, it is essential to eat every meal as it is essential in knowing how to be happy always.

11. Helping People Who Are in Need
Helping people who are in dire need also has a way of making you happy. It is essential to show love and care to the vulnerable members of society. This act of kindness has a way of making you feel fulfilled and happier after doing them.

Take a portion of your salary and give to the homeless, the sick, and other people who need help around you and watch how the joy you caused them through your gesture finds a way of coming back to you.




Final Thoughts
Learning a new thing is just a tiny part of the work. Applying what has been learned is where the real challenge lies, and that is where a lot of people falter.

Happiness is something every human should not be deprived of. A life without happiness is a tough one to live. These eleven tips have shown a couple of practices that can be applied to your everyday life to make yourself happy and help keep a smile on your face even when there is nothing much to smile about.

Many thanks to PhilHealth and LifeHack.org for helping to build this post.

I wish that everyone will find happiness in their life, take your time for doing so, and as always take care, xoxo, Lovely.
Hi Loves,

This is Lovely herself,

and first of all, I wanted to wish you all a super-duper happy new year and I wish that your dreams will come true in 2021.

Today I wanted to talk about vinyl and how I see the trend is going, and how our quarantine could make a change in the whole fashion world.

COVID-19 could be an important turning point for the fashion industry, sustainability experts say. Here’s why.

Vinyl is in vogue. Whatever your budget, you can now find shiny, translucent clothes and accessories, from see-through Christian Louboutin pumps to shiny pink Fiorucci pants to glossy catsuits and miniskirts from ASOS. It’s no surprise that the style is in. Vinyl was all over the runways at Paris Fashion Week over the past two winters and, like many trends, it has eventually trickled down into mainstream fashion. Never mind that no one is wearing vinyl pants while stuck inside under quarantine.


Vinyl is also terrible for the planet. “Vinyl is PVC, which is one of the worst forms of plastic,” says Maxine Bédat, founder of the New Standards Institute, a nonprofit devoted to making fashion more sustainable. “It’s derived from fossil fuels, which is energy-intensive to create, and it does not biodegrade. It’s all-around bad.” When consumers inevitably realize that vinyl is a hideous trend and throw out all their offending garments, the material will likely be burnt, spewing carbon into the atmosphere, Bédat says. If not, it could end up in a landfill or ocean, where it will not decompose, but instead turn into tiny particles called microplastics, which can end up in food, rain, and drinking water. Just last year, a Yale report found that plastic is accelerating climate change and scientists found that the average human swallows more than 74,000 pieces of microplastic every year—the equivalent of a credit card’s worth of plastic—which damages the human liver. 


The sudden appearance of vinyl everywhere is ironic at a time when many fashion brands are waging a war on plastic. Everlane vowed to cut all new plastic from its supply chain last year, Rothy’s uses old water bottles for its shoes, and Summersalt uses old plastic fishing nets to make swimsuits. Even Christian Louboutin launched a purse collection made from recycled plastic, and ASOS committed to making its mailing bags with 90% recycled plastic by the end of 2020.


If these examples reveal anything it’s that fads reign supreme in fashion. In their quest to provide novelty, fashion designers and brands trot out an endless cycle of silhouettes (skinny jeans! Bell-bottoms!) and materials (recycled plastic! Vinyl!), even if they convey diametrically opposite values. But the industry may be at a turning point. The pandemic has battered fashion. The most recent figures from the Commerce Department show that sales of clothing were down by 21% in July compared with the previous year, and Morgan Stanley has found that foot traffic to brick-and-mortar apparel stores is down by as much as 43% compared with last year. Fashion weeks around the world have shut down, and many designers, including Tory Burch and Dries Van Noten, have pledged to stop designing seasonal collections, which are partly to blame for the constant churn of clothes on the market.


The fact is that the fashion industry didn’t have much incentive to stop chasing wasteful trends until now. But with business plummeting, trends may finally die.



Why do trends drive fashion in the first place? From the industry’s earliest origins, they’ve been a way to cultivate consumers’ desire for newness, which allows companies to sell us more clothes every season. But over the past two decades, we’ve taken our overconsumption to new levels. The industry doubled its production from 50 billion articles of clothing to 100 billion between 2000 and 2015. Note: There are only 8 billion people on the planet.


But responding to trends is financially risky for brands, which buy massive amounts of inventory every season. Designers take bets on which styles will be fashionable six months from now and produce enormous quantities of whatever they believe will be trendy, such as, say, vinyl. If they read the market wrong, and customers aren’t really into the new look, or if the economy takes a dip, vast quantities of products go to waste. This is bad for the planet, but it’s also bad for a brand’s bottom line. “Brands are asking themselves how they can become more resilient to these kinds of economic shocks in the future,” says Laura Balmond, a program manager focused on fashion with the Ellen MacArthur Foundation.


Strategies that reduce waste can be good for business, says designer Misha Nonoo. Three years ago, she switched from designing traditional seasonal collections to creating classic clothes in timeless colors, then manufactures them using a zero-waste model. She set up her supply chain to make an outfit only when a customer orders it. This approach has allowed her to get through this pandemic relatively unscathed. She says that while sales have softened, she doesn’t have piles of unsold garments or unused fabrics she has bought sitting in a warehouse. And as demand for loungewear and sweats have increased, she has been able to quickly scale up the production of these clothes. “In so many ways, profitability and zero-waste manufacturing are totally aligned,” she says.


Balmond admits that shifting to new business models will require major systemic change for most brands. But this kind of change tends to happen in moments of crisis, such as the one we’re currently in. And brands that want to survive might not have a choice.


Many consumers have changed their relationship with fashion during the pandemic. Part of the reason that apparel sales have declined is that many consumers aren’t interested in buying trendy clothes. Instead, they’re buying clothes that are functional and comfortable. In April, clothing sales in the United States dropped by 79%, the greatest decline in history, as The New York Times reported; the sale of sweatpants, on the other hand, grew by 80%. “Many of us are questioning what is really essential and what is not,” says Bédat. “We’re questioning how much of these trends we really want to participate in; we’re asking ourselves what is it that clothes really do for us. This mentality could stick and lead to a much healthier industry in the future.”


Sweatpants might be the wardrobe of the day while everyone’s stuck at home, but it’s unclear whether we’ll be satisfied schlepping around in the same clothes day after day once the pandemic is over and restaurant dinners, in-person meetings, and weddings resume. At the same time, the landscape of fashion will be dramatically different. Iconic department stores like Neiman Marcus and Lord & Taylor have already declared bankruptcy, as have labels like DVF, Brooks Brothers, and J.Crew. More fashion companies will surely fall. It’ll be left to a dwindling group of surviving brands to determine if trends themselves are out of style.

This is my opinion of how and where fashion will be guided in the future. Let me know your thoughts about it on all social media channels, or right down below in the comment section.

This post was a kind of relief for me as I can see the changes in some of the postings already and the companies really changed the amount of production of alternative fashion already, which is making me sad a bit, because I love it and I am wearing it every day. It is part of me and how I express myself. 

This is it for today and I will see you in the next post again, until then stay safe out there.

Make yourself a moment of lovely memories, xoxo, Lovely.
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This is not meant as a personal opinion or judgment, this post is about showing and talking about corruption and stupid hard-headed people who are threatening millions of people's life. This post shows what effects it has when your loaner cutoffs your daily income and what consequence it has for those who are working in an underrated industry but still behind the scenes it is about humans who are doing a job and wanted to earn money legally.
I am talking about it because it makes me mad to see that millions of people are suffering from these actions and that there is no solution for that as of the moment. I cannot be quiet because people are being treated like dumb asses. If no one talks about it, nothing in this world will change.

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'War Against Sex Workers:' What Visa and Mastercard Dropping Pornhub Means to Performers

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//The world's biggest credit card companies terminated service to Pornhub, and performers on the site say it could seriously harm their livelihoods.

This week, Visa and Mastercard cut ties with Pornhub, decision sex workers say will only harm their industry, and won't actually help victims of non-consensual imagery.  

In what seemed to be a bit of good news on Tuesday, Pornhub announced that it would change its policies to only allow verified users to upload content to, or download from, the platform—as well as enact a more robust moderation process. This was a welcome shift and was a long time coming: non-consensual sexual imagery activists, as well as performers whose work is often pirated and reposted to Pornhub, have been asking for these changes for years. 

The verified users that are now the only ones able to upload or download to Pornhub are also suddenly unable to receive payouts through the two biggest credit card companies.  

Sex workers and activists say that this is a dangerous, discriminatory decision—one fueled by anti-porn campaigners and conservative activist groups who want sex work abolished. 

In a statement published Friday, Sex Workers Outreach Project Behind Bars wrote that the decision will force more sex workers into the margins, calling it a "war" on sex workers.

"We say 'war against sex workers' because the damage they do does not impact the labor as much as it affects the laborers who depend on the Pornhub platform to earn a living," it wrote. "[...] Violence against sex workers includes the societal and institutional violence that has led to the shuttering of the online platforms that give us a measure of safety and allow us the critical resource that is the ability to access banking." 

“If they can be shut down or hurt by this campaign, what hope is there for smaller platforms?”

All of these changes came days after a piece published by Nicholas Kristof in the New York Times, which highlighted the plight of child sexual abuse survivors whose images were posted Pornhub. Despite writing about an issue that's been used as political ammunition to censor adult content on the internet for decades—including the deeply harmful Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act of 2018—he barely cited performers who use the site or sex worker rights activists.

Instead, he opted to name-check Traffickinghub, a campaign run by conservative religious anti-trafficking organization Exodus Cry, which opposes decriminalizing sex work and wants to abolish porn altogether.

In that opinion piece, Kristof directly calls for payment processors to drop Pornhub: "And call me a prude, but I don’t see why search engines, banks, or credit card companies should bolster a company that monetizes sexual assaults on children or unconscious women. If PayPal can suspend cooperation with Pornhub, so can American Express, Mastercard, and Visa," he wrote. "I don’t see any neat solution." 

Much of the content on Pornhub is free to view, but for many performers, Pornhub was a stable revenue stream. The platform's verified Amateur Program, as well as the clip selling service Modelhub and ad revenue made on video uploads, make up a constellation of ways performers can make money on Pornhub. Kristof's inability to see a "neat solution" erases the fact that many people rely on tube sites like Pornhub for their livelihoods, even though these sites are incredibly flawed. It's not prudish to suggest child exploitation should stop and it's willfully ignorant to suggest that it would be; everyone agrees on that, including Pornhub. Suggesting all payments on the site should be dropped is, however, callous and myopic. 

"This is something we in the industry have known about for a long time, but often the trafficking or child porn headlines will drown out our voices," cam model Mary Moody told me. "We saw a similar issue unfold under SESTA/FOSTA when survival or full-service sex workers were unable to verify through Backpage and had to move to the more risky street-based work, where a disproportionate amount of minority groups are arrested."

Porn performers have dealt with de-platforming and discriminatory payment processing practices from the beginning of the internet and beyond, but have always adapted, finding new ways to continue their work. But if two of the biggest credit card companies in the world can choose to deny service to Pornhub—a household name for online porn—some worry that nothing's stopping them from denying service to smaller platforms, too. 

"Pornhub/Mindgeek are a huge company with far more resources than most online platforms—if they can be shut down or hurt by this campaign, what hope is there for smaller platforms?" model Avalon Fey said. "By targeting Pornhub and successfully destroying the ability for independent creators to monetize their content, they have made it easier to remove payment options from smaller platforms too. This has nothing to do with helping abused victims, and everything to do with hurting online adult entertainers to stop them from creating and sharing adult content."   

Many adult content creators make an income through several outlets, using a combination of clip sites, live streaming, subscription platforms, and independent websites, depending on what works for them. In the two years performer, Vinnie O'Neill has been in the adult industry, Pornhub and Modelhub have been his best-performing platform in terms of revenue and followers. Now, he’s worried that will all change.

“Sex workers are scared by this change, despite not having uploaded any illegal content”

"Visa and MasterCard have actually been hurting our ability to make money long before they banned Pornhub from their payment networks," O'Neill said. "For years, content creators have been suffering from having their content deleted because companies like Visa and MasterCard, through policies that constantly change, ban certain words and types of adult content." 

During an unprecedented economic downturn and lack of support from the government, sites like OnlyFans have exploded in growth, as people turn to sex work to pay the bills. Dylan Thomas, an amateur performer, told me that after coming out as trans and facing discrimination and harassment in his former career, as well as a decrease in regular income from the pandemic, he chose to start modeling on Pornhub to make money. "Now Mastercard and Visa are essentially for lack of a better term cock-blocking my potential to generate income through Pornhub and Modelhub," he said. "I am watching to see if my OnlyFans will be their next target and sincerely hoping not." 

Sex workers are often the most vocal, constructive critics of the platforms they use, and many have been trying to get Pornhub to change its unverified upload policies for years. Six months ago, adult model Ginger Banks started a petition specifically to ask Pornhub to change its upload policies to make them safer. No one wants sexual abuse imagery to proliferate on the internet, let alone on a site they use every day for income. But Pornhub's policy shift seems to have come too late. 

"Pornhub has operated like the wild wild west, allowing pirated content which sometimes is non-consensual content," performer Allie Eve Knox said in a Twitter thread about the news. "Some of that content stays up for way too long after takedown requests, super problematic, and potentially harmful. None of us like that this happens and we have spoken out about how to fix these issues for years," she wrote.

As flawed as Pornhub is, many are also asking why sites like Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter, which have reported millions of more instances of non-consensual abusive imagery, aren't targeted the way porn sites are. Facebook alone reported 84 million instances of child sexual abuse material over the last three years. 

"Of course, no one will petition for those social media sites to be taken down—because people are more concerned about porn and sex work than anything else,” performer Gwen Adora, who has also been outspoken about conservative lobbyists' efforts against porn, told me earlier this year. 

Payment processors have been censoring sex workers for years, by banning adult platforms from hosting certain types of porn, such as blood play, urine, and sleeping—or by closing individual bank accounts altogether. Pulling support from a massive porn network, however, is different.

"Sex workers are scared by this change, despite not having uploaded any illegal content," Fey said, "because we have seen these patterns before and have had sites and payment processors permanently and unexpectedly shut down." //

In addition to that, I wanted to share a Twitter by Asa Akira and her words are just lovely and true about the current situation.

She added the following thread to this
//"What’s happening to Pornhub is not a war on Pornhub, sexual abuse, or child trafficking; it’s a war on sex work. These supposed “activists” are rightwing, anti-porn, anti-feminist, anti-sex workgroups using unfortunate situations victims have had to endure, to push their own agenda.  

They donate millions, head campaigns to better the world (not just in areas of human sexuality, but also the environment, feminism, etc.), and are proudly supported by much of mainstream media. If they can be taken down by such hate - who is next? How are we, as an industry, safe?

whether it be social media platforms treating us with extreme bias, politicians attempting to (and succeeding) in passing measures that further put us in danger, or evangelist groups trying to shut us down under the guise of “saving the children” like in this particular instance.

Pornhub is the only big media platform that has human moderators screening every video before publishing - a fact that is highlighted in the data that Facebook has had 84 MILLION cases of Child Sexual Abuse Material reported in the last 3 years, and Pornhub has had 118. Total.

They have always worked with the authority to catch these sick predators and continue to search for ways to better prevent such videos from seeing the light of day. Recently, they banned and deleted ALL uploads from non-verified users.

Thank u for reading all of this. I will always continue to live as my true horny self, and I will never give up on my right to do so. But I am scared.

One thing all of these fights have in common, is that they are always led - dishonestly - in the name of “activism.” Please, I beg of you, do not be fooled by this.

Again, if even they are not safe - what does that mean for adult work?? I am most saddened because Pornhub has unapologetically stood as allies and defenders of us sex workers when so many companies we work with have not.

In the time I’ve been in porn, there has not been a single moment we sex workers have been free of this war;

What’s scarier this time around for me - compared to any of the times before - is that Pornhub is arguably the biggest, most mainstream company our industry has ever seen. They are a household name and have done more than any other company in the past to normalize sex work.

I hope Visa and MasterCard see the harm they are doing to sex workers and the porn industry, but I’m not hopeful; they’ve never been our allies, and I doubt they will start now. It’s a very sad, disheartening time... but I can’t really say any of it is brand new."//

Again, this is what she said on her Twitter account and I believe she spoke for millions of workers in the industry. You can find her Twitter Account right here Asa Akira.

I had to reshare this and had to make a post about it because I am a supporter that everyone is being treated equally, fairly, and that we all experience the same rights and justice as we deserve because we are all humans.

If you want to support the industry and this post as well, please share it, and make it aware.

Thank you,
Lovely.
Hi Lovelies,

It is Lovely 

Herself

(should I think about a new intro) 😑

Anyways, you are on my website so you are lovely.

Welcome December 🎄

What can you expect from me during this December month?

On December 12, we will be hosting our next LIVE stream on

www.mixcloud.com/live/llqlovely

with guest mixes by star DJs

Nakadia

Marika Rossa

Deborah De Luca

John Odin and myself.

And then from December 19-21, there will be a celebrate feature on my website for the very first time and if you are following me on my social media you know that I like break standards and that I want to talk about topics that are not on everyone's daily plate and in December I want to talk about the XXX business and I will be featuring Ms. Abigail Mac as my guest and star of the month.
There will be a lot of stuff that we will be featuring during these days so have an eye on that.
And on December 30 there will be a special review of 2020 and a message from me for you Lovez, but for now I am not going to reveal the secret yet.

So be excited for that one and hope to see you on December 12, 8pm HKT, 1pm CT, 9am PST.



XOXO, Lovely



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