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It's Lovely 💋💋💋
HERSELF 😅😅😅
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Anyways, that was a hilarious joke 😉😉😉
Happy Sunday
And in today's post, I want to talk about things that other people like cis and straight people don't know about pansexual people.
The problem in our society became that people prefer to stay quiet instead of speaking out what they are thinking. Of course in since situations, it is the right thing to do. It can be that there's a need to defend yourself. Another case might that people don't know better and how to handle a certain situation.
Since I came out as a pansexual person I have learned so many things about things that are different from me and for straight and cis people.
But I'm not keeping quiet about it and since it is me as a person is the main focus on my website I want to talk about things that are different because I love to do and maybe you as a reader will learn something and understand that the universe has more to deliver than you are familiar with your knowledge in your own bubble 🗯.
That's why I want to talk about things today that you don't know about pansexual people.
1. This is something that I've observed in my life for so many times already. It is that people do not ask questions so with this I want to invite you to ask questions. I'll answer them straight forward. That's actually something people on our LGBT community want you to do because if you don't all we can't know the things that are confusing for you and that makes you feel uncomfortable. We're humans and most of all we are able to talk and share. Together we can find out what we have in common or not. Don't forget that you live a life where things are normal to you and so we do. So let's have a coffee if you want to talk about something, and we can a great talk together 💖.
2. Pansexual people are attracted to everyone regardless of their gender, orientation, and in my case also regardless of age. Remember the story that I dated a Dutch pansexual girl? If not I will link the story
right here again.
Read it and then come back.
right here again.
Read it and then come back.
However, in my world, there are no limits to who my partner can be. I was attracted to all possible genders already and it doesn't mean that I am not loyal ones I'm in a relationship. I am. I guess that is something that we have in common right 👉?
3. There are a lot of artists out there in this world who is pansexual and have chosen an artist name for example Miley Cyrus, Honey Gold, Tess Holliday, model and actor Cara, Bella Thorne, Janelle Monáe, and many more. Most of people are very vocal about their sexuality especially pan people are. And we have one thing in common which is our artist names. Those chosen do not ask questions about it. Do not give us nicknames or anything like that. I made big mistake ones myself when I called Honey Cyrah. She explained to me that I should not do that and I have to agree if I think about it. Maybe we don't want to be called by our real names and maybe there's a reason behind artist names. In her case, she told me that she didn't feel good about it, and she said that she was very upset about it.
4. In line with the points mentioned in 3., it turned out that she had a lot of emotions triggered by that. With this, it's just a conclusion that pansexual people do need to feel emotions to remember that we're alive. What do I mean by this? I'm the happiest person on earth when I am able to feel emotions. These emotions can be positive and negative. Actually, it doesn't matter because my pansexual orientation helps me to understand myself better if I feel. And it doesn't matter what I feel but I have to do. It's like the same that someone has to do the dance things every day. So it's the same with me. I do need to feel emotions to remember who I am. Honey is the same, and we just love to let our minds go, so I figured out that it's something pansexual people have in common. The artists I named above are the same. And also the Dutch girl was the same. With this, I would like to ask your acceptance because we are made that way. It's normal for us and especially for me, it is even more important and intense since I am also demisexual.
Fun fact: I have 9 different sexual orientations which makes me so unique but a truly lovely unicorn. More about this, and I am living a fun and happy life with this complicated given soon.
5. The last one for today is that you should not forget that pansexual people are people. We have a heart, and we have a body, and we have everything that you have also. We have our own minds and we do feel emotions. This is something that we have in common because if a situation hurt you, I mean you as a cis and straight person, it is also possible that the same situation will hurt us. Just because of the fact that we are different it doesn't mean that you have to treat us in a different way and that it is right to treat us that way. Being different is good. Being different makes the planet more colorful. Being different makes us unique. And most of all being different makes you also different because if we are all same the world would be pretty much boring 💤 we're all different in this world if you think about it twice. And this makes all of us special regardless of our gender, appearance, lifestyle, and orientation. We're all humans. So let's treat each other as humans, fairly, equal, and as frees.
Don't forget what I am always saying: BE YOURSELF 💖💖💖
This post was very much important to me today because of the experiences I made after I came out and I felt like I had to share it.
And the next upcoming weeks I will on some more frequently ask questions about me being demi and pansexual. I am not sure if I will open up about my other orientations as well because actually these two topics a very complex already, and so I want to make sure that everything is covered and that you understand everything. Oh, yeah, I will also talk about me being non 6 binary so if you want to know more about me subscribe to my website, follow me Twitter and Instagram @llqlovely where I am most active.
Also, read the latest chapter of the last day of my life which is linked here
And have a great Sunday.
Thank you and BE YOURSELF 💖 💖 💖
OOO Lovely.
