It is February of 2021 and I am welcoming you to this years' website event
NATURAL SHINE - LGBT HISTORY MONTH SPECIAL
I would like to start with a quote that someone is always telling me.
That person always says: "Remember that love is the greatest."
Somewhere along the way as you work hard to build a successful business, as you work hard to get ahead, as we study hard in school, as we become lost in that overwhelming drive to create something magical in our lives, as we try to fill the emptiness in our hearts with work, we forget why we’re doing it all.
Why do we work?
Why do we create? Why do we put ourselves out there? What is that burning need inside us that drives us to sacrifice everything?
What is it that pushes us to work with so much focus and persistence that we forget ourselves, our health, our wellbeing… pushing so hard that we end up sabotaging the cherished relationships that we end up missing our child’s first day at school, that we willingly give up time with loved ones?
We’re doing it all. We’re building, creating, working hard, for love. When I say love, I don’t mean romantic, steamy, or sexual love. I mean pure love.
Love that you might have for a spectacular piece of artwork. Love that you might have for travel and for new adventures. Love that you might have for the quiet beauty of snowfall. This is the love that creates. The love that inspires.
That love that we are doing it all for. It’s fascinating to see what happens when you introduce love to your work, your creation. When you let love into everything you do, everything you do seems to be created with a little more magic. When you let love into your work, your work is better. When you let love into your business, your clients show up for you. Back you, support you, cheer you on.
When you let love in, you have endless courage, creativity, clarity, and drive. Love is behind it all. Love brings out the best in you. It brings out the best in your people.
Love brings out the best in your work. In everything you do.
Love works. Loving each other works. Loving your team works. Loving your clients' works.
Sometimes it feels like the bad guys win. I know it feels like the world tells you you need to be a hard-nosed, slimy asshole entrepreneur to get to the top, but that’s not true. Sooner or later, the bad guys lose. In the end, love always wins. Always.
Love is why we do what we do.
You’re not doing it for the money. Ask yourself why you want the money. So you can buy that big house? Why do you want that house or the car or the recognition? Because you believe at some level you’ll be happier when you get them. You believe you will get more love when you get them. But the truth is you can lead with love now. So remember yours why. Why do you want to win? Why do you want to win? What is it that really matters to you?
You might have heard of this old saying, it’s not personal. It’s business. Wrong. Business is personal. It always has been. There is no other way we could keep doing what we do. There’s no other reason to wake up every day and run your business or your life, your relationships, everything.
Let love in. Fuel everything with all the love you have. Then watch your business take off. Watch your vision and your goals come to life when your team and your clients support you with love.
Business is love. Let love in. Fuel every little thing with all the love you have. Ask how you can serve, not what you can get. Create with love and service in mind and let the money chase you. Watch your vision and your goals come to life. When you lead with love when your work is filled with your love.
When you love what you do, and you do what you love, know this… understand this, embody this, live by this. It’s how you stay true to yourself. It’s how you make the impossible possible. It’s how you experience authentic success and happiness. It’s how you live big.
We are all unicorns in this world. We all can help to make this world a better place by sharing our life, that we already apply in our life. We all can contribute that everyone actually feels that love is the greatest. Here we do not need to take care of who we are. No matter if you are trans, bi, gay, lesbian, pan, demi, a-sexual, or other, it is about what you feel. Transporting love is made by taking actions, by taking care of each other, by motivation, and by romance.
If we all do it together and shine in our very own special natural way, this world will become a better place. I am sure that we all can do things to make this happen. We just have to start to do so.
With this website event, I would like to make the first step and hear me out, please. Our communities have been struggling for a long time. We have been wanting and asking for acceptance, for tolerance, and for the love that might be normal to be shared in other communities already. We belong together, we are in the same place, and we are humans. This website event is a reminder of how hard it is for some industries to come over with their struggles, with their fears, and problems. We will put an eye on the most important flashbacks that helped our community to improve, I included in a personal story, and these flashbacks this year are a reminder also that our journey is not yet done. We are still on the path, but if we all share the love that I was talking about, then I am strongly confident, and I believe that we will arrive soon where we want to be. It’s how you live big. You go on a continuous journey and that journey through time starts now.
Welcome to the LGBT history month and remember to spread the natural shine of yourself, of your love, and YOU.
Thank you and last but not least, let me share the timeline again.
Feb 6 Flashback to the 90s and 2000s - How the adult industry helped to liberate the LGBT communities worldwide
Feb 14 Flashback to 2020 - How Honey Gold changed my life and what I have learned from her - how she contributed to my new life
Feb 18 Flashback to 2016 - How Diversity and Inclusion became a major topic in the USA
Feb 24 Flashback to the 80s - how leather, latex, and PVC became famous and why it is now part of the LGBT community
These four posts will be out in February, and I am so excited about them because I did a lot of research, interviews, and hard work on them. I will also be sharing a personal story and lots of background information that are not obvious these days that helped our community to improve but still should be remembered.
Can't wait for this event.
Hope you are excited about it, too, and we will see you all in February.
Until then, stay safe out there, xoxo Love and happy history month everyone.
